Insecurity difference men women dating
Anything over 25 years does begin to raise problems in terms of compatibility because you are effectively from different generations and therefore your life experiences, beliefs and values may be so vastly different that it can cause difficulties when you negotiate important decisions in your relationship.
When someone of 30 is dating someone who is 50 the age difference may not seem particularly significant.
An 80 year old will be coping with very different life challenges and the differences could lead to a range of issues that weren’t apparent earlier on in the relationship.
Sometimes people get matched with people in the age bracket they specified only to realise that what 40 looks like on some people is very different to how they see themselves.
People who are jaded, bitter and cynical about the world and their relationships can come across as being much older than they actually are.
This issue with insecurities pops us more and more and is affecting our relationship. I am indeed attractive and I am also coming from a culture where looks are important.
I've never hidden that it is important for me to feel, to know that I am attractive. When I am dating, I am not giving off the sex vibes, I am not inviting to other men, I do not initiate contact, nor do I smile and encourage contact with other men. I am also happy with my sexuality and happy with my looks.
Age isn’t just about the time you’ve been on the planet, it’s about your attitude and approach to life.
With huge advances in technology creating all manner of age-defying treatments; better diets; dental care; and life expectancy, it’s entirely possible to stay looking, and feeling, young well into middle age.