Dating several men at once
It's Not What You Say, It's How You Say It Most people you meet are prepared for you to do something shitty to them. But there's a big difference between a bad thing done poorly and a bad thing done well.L, a friend I can only describe as having advanced degrees in the science of online dating, says, "My personal experience is that people don't worry about what is happening as much as they do how it is happening.Here's an excerpt: Suppose for a moment that you eliminate all of the intangible woman-fluff that traditionally accompanies dating -- in other words, take away romance and fate so that you’re left with a pragmatic, practical point of view. (You must have the best possible inner and outer selves.) 4.I call this approach “The Numbers Game.” It is based on the way men think about dating and business. Your personal style differentiates your company from all the others. I mean, I haven't met their friends yet so it's possible they all hang out together in some sort of sports league situation and next thing I know I'm showing up to one of their football games and realizing I'm dating the entire cast of 2. Ugh, but it'd be so much easier to schedule one after the other so I don't have to go home in between. Wait, I wonder if he has information I should know about. One of them is having feelings for you and it is not the one you like the most.
The world’s best salesmen are lucky to maintain a 10% sales rate. If you’re not catching my drift yet, think of it this way: To win this game, you have to be the best company you can be, making the best product and selling the best services.
Eh, that joke was funny but not as funny as the ones that the guy I date on Saturdays tells. Great, now I've met another person who knows I'm dating this person and I have to spend my dates with other people looking for that person like they're a spy who could cause my undoing.
When you're on a date with one person but thinking about another person. This guy has superior abs and is a better listener most of the time. Even if I double up on something, I can just pretend my phone sent the text twice. What if their roommate/friend you met sees you on a date with someone else? When you tell a story a bunch of times because you can't remember which one you already told it to.
For a large stripe of people, especially in cities, dating one person at a time is uncommon, if not completely fictional.
But even if I'm seeing 40 women, at any given moment, I'm with only one of them.