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Think of this as being like a “love calculator” that helps figure him out, and add points to your “love score.” First is… If he comes up with stuff that sounds very “Homer Simpson” to you, you might have a problem. See if he’s the type to make a run to the refrigerator for some food. You just have to stay out of my underwear drawer.” Now we get to: Asking a man a question like this one on a first date is a guaranteed way to make him smile.This question is good, because it sets expectations, . (Sorry, but that answer is a bit neutral, not much to learn from it.) Don’t be afraid to push him a on the question. (Just asking makes us have to think of something .) When we are asked to think about something that has a certain effect, we relive the effect, as if it were happening again. If you didn’t have to worry about money or a job, where would you live in the world? What was the last book that you got so absorbed in that you couldn’t put it down? You only get 3 words to describe yourself – what are they? Which is better to listen to – your heart or your brain? Click here to take our quick (and shockingly accurate) “Does He Like You” Quiz right now and find out if he likes you… What kind of extra-curricular activities did you do for fun in high school? Which is better: asking for permission or asking for forgiveness? What would you do if you inherited 1 million dollars tomorrow? What’s the most embarrassing moment of your life so far? Where would you rather live – a big house in the suburbs or a tiny apartment in a great location in the city? If you could have any job in the world, what would it be? Ever have any trouble with the law or get arrested? What do you want to have going on in your life in 5 years, or 10, or 15? Which would you rather be, smart or happy, and why?
Future pacing is a type of mental imagery, a powerful way to anchor his emotions to situations that you create.
You’re basically telling him to entertain you as his girlfriend, which then plants a seed in his thoughts.
Don’t be surprised if he suddenly pulls closer to you and starts gazing more lovingly into your eyes after he answers.
How do you deal with people in your life that you don’t like? What’s the funniest thing that happened in your childhood?
What actor would play you in a movie about your life?