After dating a year
Also, what makes either party think their involvement is “long term”, or how can they even claim to know the nature of their relationship at all if they’ve never discussed respective goals or any type of future together?
What you can do is to bring it up and see what he has to say.
So, I caution against putting on those “don’t upset the road apple cart” blinders and understand that communication is the key to any healthy relationship.
Opening up a dialog concerning the nature your relationship after a YEAR of being together is not “rushing things” nor is it “pressuring"; it is a serious, mature DISCUSSION.
Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc.
Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing...